Gender-based violence

Preparing a gender-based violence consultation with safety in mind

Editorial update: 27 October 2026 · Matrimonialistas editorial team

Who this helps

For organising available information without putting yourself at risk to obtain documents. Your safety takes priority over any preparation checklist.

What to prepare

You can attend even if documents are missing. Flag any deadline or urgent notice at the time of booking.

Essential to explain your situation

Tell the firm how and when it is safe to contact you.
Explain any current risk, affected children or upcoming court appointment.
Describe the events you can recall without expecting yourself to give a perfect account.

Useful if already available

Available complaints, summonses or protection orders.
Original messages or documents you can safely preserve.

Only if requested and relevant

Medical reports and other particularly sensitive information only when needed, through an agreed secure channel.

Questions to take to the appointment

Which information is urgent and how can I provide it safely?
What support or accompaniment can I request?
Which documents should the lawyer review first?

Common preparation mistakes

Delaying help because you lack documents or exact dates.
Accessing another person’s accounts, altering files or taking risks to obtain evidence.

Final checklist

Tick items on this page or print this checklist. Selections are not sent or saved.

Tell the firm how and when it is safe to contact you.
Explain any current risk, affected children or upcoming court appointment.
Describe the events you can recall without expecting yourself to give a perfect account.
I have separated available and missing documents.
I have noted my questions and any imminent dates.
I have agreed how to provide documents privately.

This guide helps you prepare an appointment. It does not determine the outcome of a matter or replace individual legal assessment. Do not send sensitive documents through public forms or links.